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How do we find a girl to join us for a threesome?
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Where can we find a bi or lesbian girl on the net that are free and willing to meet
us and join us for a threesome? We aren�t having much luck.
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Well the girls are certainly out there so if you�re not having luck finding them,
perhaps you need to give them a reason to find you. I think we need to highlight
the point that the �girl� you seek is a real, live person with her own desires and
feelings, as opposed to a sex object that is there for a couple to live out their
fantasies with. Many girls do enjoy meeting with couples for threesomes, but they
usually like to feel that they are a part of a team, rather than a third wheel that
will be cast away afterwards while you both cosy up again as a couple to bask in
the afterglow. When approaching girls online who are seeking couples, consider what
she writes in her profile and appeal to her as a person that you want to get to
know out of the bedroom as well as in. No one really wants to feel like a sex object
even if sex is the main reason why we�re all online here.
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Are two penises better than one?
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How do i convince my wife to have a MMF 3sum? I am a 25yo bisexual male, and my
wife is a 23yo straight female. She strongly believes that sex should only be shared
between her and myself, yet I want to watch her have sex with another man and help
me give oral sex to him. There must be a way to convince her that two penises are
better than one.
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A person�s attitude to alternative sexual play (especially those involving other
people) will depend greatly on how she views sex and relationships, as well as how
secure that person feels in a relationship. Your wife may not understand why you
want to share her with another man. After all, many women are accustomed to thinking
that men get jealous, so your desire to see her with another man may not make sense
to her. She may also not understand your desire to express your bisexuality, since
if you have chosen a woman as your life partner, then she may have assumed that
you have �gone straight�. It sounds to me that you may need to reassure her that
you think she�s hot. So hot in fact that you want to see another man desire her
as much as you do. Also explain that your sexual interest in men is not a threat
to your relationship with her. Take the opportunity to find out what she might like
to try sexually and perhaps work from there.
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But anal sex doesn�t hurt... does it?
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I am trying to get my girlfriend to have anal sex with me but she doesn�t want to
go there as she says it will just hurt and my penis won�t fit. How can I explain
to her that it doesn�t have to be like that?
I would like to try anal sex for the first time. What advice do you have so that
both my partner and I will enjoy the experience?
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Well, we assume that anal sex doesn�t have to be painful since we see so much of
it enjoyed immensely in both straight and gay porn. We also know that a lot of people
out there engage in backdoor action from time to time so it has to be good. However,
unless YOU have tried anal penetration on yourself, I don�t think you�re in any
position to tell your girlfriend that it doesn�t hurt. Yes, with the right lubrication,
preparation and attitude, anal sex can be amazingly good, but otherwise, the anal
passage is generally designed to pass items out, not in. Therefore, be patient.
Try stimulating your girlfriend�s anal region without penetration first. If she
likes the sensations, then you can try using a finger gently and gauge how much
she enjoys that level of penetration. Take it slowly and you might be surpised by
how she reacts. On the other hand, if she really does decide that anal experimentation
isn�t for her, then do accept it and move on.
Relaxation is the key here, as well as a really good water-based lubricant and good
communication with your partner. Firstly, make sure that you are both sufficiently
aroused. Include a lot of regular foreplay but also start including the anal region,
if you don’t already do so on other occasions. A finger or two is a good start
to prepare yourself for a whole penis to enter. Once your partner is ready, ensure
that her sphincter is not tensed (ie - as though you are trying to keep things in!).
It needs to be fully relaxed for comfortable penetration. Make sure that you listen
to your partner and go slow at first before finding the right pace for pleasure.
Finally, even if you know your partner well and are both STD free, condoms are a
must for anal sex, particularly if you plan on using your equipment elsewhere in
the same session.
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Looks Vs Personality - Round One
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What makes a guy really desirable to women? Does looks really matter or is it more
the personality that carries across?
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Sadly, the answer to your question will differ greatly from women to women. Some
women are all about looks. Some are all about money. However, even if a man is blessed
with both good looks and money, if his attitude and personality stinks, he’s
most likely headed for a life surrounded by airheads with a degree in Retail Therapy.
I won’t lie, we’re all attracted to good looks but that also encompasses
good presentation. A guy who isn’t quite Brad Pitt but knows what to wear
and chooses the sexiest fragrances can appeal to many women. However, once we go
past the outer layer, we women do enjoy a guy with a happy, relaxed personality.
We’d enjoy spending time with a guy who is as much interested in telling stories
about himself as he is listening to our hopes and dreams. Confidence is sexy but
it need not be pushed to a point where we think you’re over-compensating ;)
At the end of the day, make the most of your outer, and your inner will shine through.
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Does size really matter?
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The age old question I know, but does size matter to most women?
Is thickness as important as length? Is length more important than girth? Is short
and thick better than long and skinny?
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Probably not. I think most women are more interested in what’s attached to
the penis. There are certainly what you would call ’size queens’ who
demand no less than 10 or so inches but you can probably steer clear of such types
and concentrate on women who enjoy a diet that doesn’t just consist of meat
;)
Preference for thinner, longer, thicker, faster, harder (and so on) will depend
entirely on each individual woman. Size queens may want thick and long, whereas
smaller framed women may only be able to accommodate thinner, shorter penises. In
terms of the average woman, I think her preference will have more to do with how
a man uses his equipment ("It’s not the size of the sea, but the motion
of the ocean"). Yes, certainly some women may say this to placate men with
smaller tools, but few would really blame penis size for bad sex. In short, there
is a time and a place for all penises.
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Working that Profile
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I’ve been in the online dating scene for 6 months now and I have yet to meet
a successful match. Many girls seem to show interest but when the time comes to
try and hook up, it never works out. Could you please tell me what’s wrong?
I mean is there anything I should do to my profile or any tips at all? I am starting
to lose faith in internet dating.
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What attracts a woman to a profile changes with every woman you ask. What one woman
finds attractive or appealing can turn another woman off completely. In many cases,
before a woman can make up her mind about you, she may move onto someone with a
more appealing profile. There are some things you can do though: Firstly, always
check your spelling. It shows laziness and not to mention, makes you appear unintelligent.
Don’t be rude or ill-mannered. Crude can be cheeky, but it has to be done
in a respectful manner. Also no one wants to read about how great you think you
are! Tell them WHY you think you’re so great. Appearance can be crucial. If
it looks as though your photo was taken when you were last arrested (AKA mugshot),
no one is going to want to contact you. Make sure you look your best. And finally,
be honest and put in some effort. No one wants to read an autobiography but neither
do they want to have to guess. Remember...’Effort Equals Reward’. Good
luck!
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